Can you imagine what it would be like to be walking around, hand in hand, with someone you absolutely adore? Someone who makes you feel on top of the world? Someone who you feel the sun rises and sets with them? If you can imagine such a person being in your life, well why aren’t they? And why are you single, reading this article?
Well the last part is easy. You’re reading this because you want to have someone special in your life and you are doing something about it. Finally!
But to attract someone special in your life, someone of value, you are going to need to become someone of value. This is a rough quote I first heard from Christian Hudson the creator of the outstanding dating course for me called the Girlfriend Activation System.
It’s the truth though. Like attracts like. Not always but more often than not this rule rings true. So if you want to get someone who has certain qualities that you like, then it will be in your best interests to work on having these qualities yourself first. This means you will have to do an honest assessment of yourself. And map out your strengths and weaknesses in this area in regards to values, character traits and so on.
So I would highly suggest you sit down with a trusty pen and paper in hand and for one afternoon, or whenever you get a few spare hours, thing long and hard about what you want in person. Describe their characteristics in great detail. The more finer the detail the better. Then circle those traits that you think you need to develop further. This will be a very enlightening experience and help you really map out the path you need to take to attract the person you want into your life.
Doing this will also give you a target to hit. Most people constantly go about their life without any real knowledge about who they like or who is best for them. They just randomly go about everything. This is not the best way to do this.
After you have done this exercise and you have a list of traits that you need to develop, then work on building these traits. There are many excellent books, online resources, Websites and blogs that will help you in many ways. So use whatever you can get access to. This is the most powerful way to attract someone of absolute value into your life.